The Power of Understanding the Unity of Life-collection:seshadrivikralaviewsandvision

HEART --- The Power of Understanding the Unity of Life-collection:

You can see our world. You can understand our world and the people in it very well. It's like this: If you suffer abandonment, how do you spell "withdrawal"? A-B-A-N-D-O-N-M-E-N-T. Withdrawal. When somebody has withdrawn from you, that's how you feel about it. Now, if you have been abandoned, then you can regroup once again, and you recover some lost and neglected persons. And you rebuild yourself in a new adaptation, essentially.

 Now, everybody in this world has been abandoned many times in many ways. It was dramatic, obviously, and probably not real common. But it symbolizes a feeling -- a feeling that many people in our world have, which is that somehow or another, somebody walked out on them. And there's two ways that happened. One is physical: the person walks out physically. And the other is emotional: the person shuts down their doors for them emotionally, even while they're still there. In either case, the heart sees it as the same. It's abandonment. The third and the most important is that we may even for assumption sake, shall think that we ABANDON ( in MIND) some person, what ever may be the cause or the reason, but still. We can not just loose sight of him or of his thoughts and his or her emotional attachments which you had earlier, may be of this life or the earlier, still , you shall not forget them in soul and in mind; lest you may abandon outwardly and try always to avoid them.

You could've had a parent who was really enthused about you at some point in your development, and then sort of lost enthusiasm, for example. Or you could have had a lover who did the same. Or you could have had a friend in high school. You could have had experiences in the world. The world, you see, is like this. In the world, it is not uncommon that such things would happen in the life of someone, and for anyone.

And therefore, you go into the adaptive cycle subsequent to abandonment, in which you rebuild yourself in a more conservative form. Your revised mentality is supposed to be in some ways wiser, and in that respect healthier.

However, we do have an expression called "damaged goods/ the respect or the insult".    And when we speak of damage, we are not speaking of health. In fact, we are speaking of unhealthy atmosphere of some one who was abandoned, and the person who abandoned.  We shall always be trying to search or research for something which makes you compensate and compromise your mindset and the mood condition of compromised and diminished well-being of each other-- Damaged goods/minds of actions in retrospective and without prospective and positive thoughts...

And then we have an expression called "emotional baggage." When we speak of emotional baggage, we are not talking about a healthy and wiser adaptation, which is the one that we think we're building. We think we're wisely revising to a more "realistic" perspective, “Improved goods” without retrospective or going for positive thinking trying to be compromised for the realities of life. But we're having and preserving the damaged goods as we adapt such thoughts through our own mind-perversions and with out realities and realization, even after the incident. You can name it any way you want, but a rose is a rose by any name. And damaged goods/minds are damaged/minds, unless you rebuild them, there lies the positive thinking and the give and take policy of forgiveness and forethought.

So that non-revision of attitude and social orientation, which characterizes the average person's world experience, is a downgrading towards a closed heart from a relatively open condition. And this happens stepwise -- steps down towards more and more damage on the goods. The progressive achievement of "wisdom" and "realism" which is a progressive achievement is compressed and suppressed with a version of closure in the heart. 

And so we say we are wiser and healthier, but this expression "damaged goods/minds" shows we are not better off having made these successive improvements or adjustments and adaptations. We are certainly worse off. We are damaged goods; we are less open in mind as well in action. We are less free. We are less human in every way. Because we are less inclined to wear our heart on our sleeve, which is an expression for being real. In other words, "I wear my heart on my sleeve" means I present myself as I am; I do not hide my feelings. Now, if in fact, if I do not wear my heart on my sleeve, then I am less human.

And so, we move from this heartbreak to heart brake, b-r-a-k-e.  Heartbreak becomes heart brake. We have brakes on the heart. We have brakes on our feelings; we have brakes on our humanness. We have brakes, braking action. We withhold on that level. We confine and still continue ourselves to our thoughts and feelings and do not care for other’s thinking and so on.

This movement or adjustment is creating a world that is unified, in their circumference and circumstances confining themselves to their reasoning and imaginations about others. In that every person is affecting every other person by their adaptation. 

                    They're all going solo, observe the pronunciation and do not adapt it. That's s-o-  l-o-w.  They're all going so low with their new adaptation of damaged goods, into what we would call distrust. This eventually disturb the peaceful mind and drag to ward unwarranted thoughts and imaginations and into being guarded, withholding, withdrawn. Not wearing our heart on our sleeve, but instead being duplicitous, unavailable, anti-juicy, anti-good, and pro-selfish.  This situation is nothing but Pro-self-protective. This is the nature of the damage upon the goods that we are.

And it is a global damage that we experience as humanity, which we experience as each other.   This is nothing but, Self Damage and also Damage to others. We experience the strategies of damaged people who see these developments as wise, as bringing themselves up to speed with survivalists and proper, appropriate adjustment of their attitude.

So the people we meet are all already wise. They are all like us, but they have reached so low. Before we arrived to that state, stage, they have reached it, already, all ready. They were ready before we came, for our arrival. They were waiting for the guest. They prepared for the guest by shutting down their heart, by keeping themselves under lock and key, by presenting us with a facade that is impervious.

If we too, ourselves are already similarly wise, similarly well-prepared for life, similarly realistic and so forth as above, and not realistic in mind and thought-- whatever we want to call these things, this is closed condition -- then what we have in the ensuing meeting, when we meet that person who is prepared and we are also prepared, what we have is a grand mutual irrelevance. At least we hope it is that; we both hope that, individually and mutually we shall not respect each other and even if other is in changing mind with positive attitude toward YOU, you wantonly discard him. In your thinking and preparedness, you must be irrelevant to them, and think as if to make them believe that your actions are for them to be safe. And, reciprocal in action, you always like that they must be irrelevant to you for you to be safe. Or your relevance to them must be minimized by them, and their relevance to you must be minimized or held in check by you, to be safe. And that's what: heart brake.

They will do their best to minimize the extent to which they give you their heart, in negative terms and conditions, to protect themselves from you and from relationship and its presumed dangers, and damages. And you will do the same. And this is the non-event of your relationship.

It is a world of hurt people with a huge heap of hurt, a mountain of pain, a pile of pain, in the hearts of both the persons, but none shall come forward to reunite. It's your world. And they see your pain. And so they see a heap of hurt, a pile of pain. And they see it in the world everywhere around them, as you see it in the world everywhere around you. And so they have gone so low, maintaining irrelevance in their lives. They are heart sick indeed, and therefore withheld, sick in the heart, sick in the love department. And, they are all going solo, all going so low, to survive, individually, feeling insecure and circling as moving in “No- safe Zone”.

So the world they're seeing in going so low is the world they're creating them selves and visualizing as of real. Let you leave the matter to the God and also the persons you in fact does not like or dislike and even hate heart in heart, but still you as a human being wish them to be good and try not to discard them and express friendliness and love, Let them realize this  or not!

Now, when we say ‘For God forsaken', ‘heart braking', which means to go against the natural tendencies that God implanted in the soul, which is to love freely and spontaneously and generously. Trying always and in  all-ways preparing to put ourselves the brakes on such matters. To become the kind of person we want to be --a self-protective person, a selfish person. To create that kind of person we put the brake on the heart. That thing in the middle here is a disc brake, for those of you that are not mechanically inclined. It's a heart brake.

So now you see a world of heart brake in every sense. A systematic withholding from you your self, that is from your inner thoughts, duly suppressing and controlling them, which has, in fact, broken your heart, and caused you to put on your heart brakes.  Because if you do what they did, which you almost certainly will do so, as a selfish, emotional and egotistical person, then you will put on your heart brake in relationship to them. You will work to maintain their irrelevance to you. And you will break their heart in the process.

And they will then put on their heart brakes a little more. And so they will, then, reject, or withhold from you, and break the heart of you, and/or disappoint someone else. And who is that someone else?  Exactly who that someone else is? That is the person you are going to meet and try to get together with. But because of you, it will be too late! They are ruined, by you through your other friend, the one you rejected, who then rejected them, in turn.