Soft Skills: Will power and its Essence:

Soft Skills: Will power and its Essence:

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings; but who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly. So that, his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.” – Theodore Roosevelt.

 Most of the persons whether at the work spot or at other places, find themselves aloof and as discriminated from others, a typical type of negative thought emerged right from the beginning of their life span. These soft skills wake them up to the reality and make them understand that nothing in this world is unconquerable if there is real effort with positive thoughts and concentrations.

Recognize them, slowly and without even their knowledge segregate them from others, and inculcate, educate them as to how they can be helped to eliminate negative influences working on them and show the way out. Some one is shy, afraid of to take up any new assignment, a job work, or and always try to stand behind some one; they literally, succumb to any adverse criticism, they get hurt; they always feel to be alone and try to work all alone with out support and they hate groups, team works; seek out those who resonate with them. This is all nothing but lack of will power.

 The only thing to do is to recognize them and console them with greater precaution and carefulness; make them to cheerful and happy to be with you; inculcate within themselves that you are also like all the others and that you have achieved great things slowly only by creating will power.

You always make them to feel that you too faced lot of defeats and adversities, failures, disparity from among the others, insults, and so on. And after some time, make them to understand what type of privileges and perks you are now getting by self determination and personal will power. Make them to realize that they shall aspire for it and go for it.

Make them to believe that you there for them and follow them at the work spot and when needed; Enrich good will power in them by making out some or the story type matters of success like the Taj Mahal; The Rome; are not built in a day or by one person alone; the group, the team spirit shall make every thing a success and to reach the goal. Tell them that a nest by a bird is built by several attempts and with hard work.

Create full confidence and reality of the life. Push them forward and make them to take up the task with a challenge that they are no less than any other person; they are equally strong and have strength to face stress and have stamina to reach to the goal.